Six Ways to Make People like
you. If you want people to like you…..
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
This is rule
may get the person to like you but not mostly because when you are interested in
a person who show interest, showing that you care and your there to listen.
Also when you show interest the person may think that you’re being open-minded
and they feel sure you won’t judge them. When you show interest in a person the
person sees how great you are and what you’re sharing with them can also grab
interest in one another. As your showing interest to a person you develop a foundation
of communication allowing one or the to become great friends. Personally, I
like it when someone shows interest because we get to know one another and see
how people think and how they react to certain things. Showing interest in a
person can also open up many opportunities in the future as well as you build
up the foundation of communication. It’s also well to develop interest in your
community to make it better and I believe many people will get to like you,
because you care for you home. It is
also important to have interest in your education because that shows you care
and many people will look up to you. You shall also show interest in your
parents because that shows that you care and love them.
Rule 2: Smile
Smiling is one of the most important thing it should be number 1 as the part of your day because smiling helps you get through the day
in a more positive and delightful way. Whenever I’m having a bad day I always
intend to smile because I know the day will go faster and better if I keep
having a positive attitude throughout the day. Also when you smile you show
interest, it just may be that you like the person or you be getting the person
to like you. If you smile and you’re in a bad mood it will easily improve your
mood. “Let your smile change the world, don’t let the world change your smile.”
This is an outstanding quote because it shows that you shouldn’t let the people
in this world make you feel bad feel great and confident about yourself, for
the person you are today because there is no one else like you. “Don’t smile
because it’s over, Smile because it happened.” This quote is very important
because it shows thing =s that happen in life and we should get over them,
because life isn’t just a pretty picture on the wall so smile so you can get
through these obstacles.
Rule4: Be a good
listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
This is extremely important because it allows
anyone to gain confidence with one or another and having confidence is probably
one of the best to get a person to like you that way they know you care about
them. When you’re being a good listener it allows them to open up to. On way of
being a good listener is being looking at them in the eyes because that is one
of the way they’ll know you listening to the person you’re speaking to. Many people
don’t think it’s important to be a good listener because they’re selfish and don’t
care about others, so be the other person and care for the things they tell
you. “If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.” “Remember
that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interesting in himself
and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems.”
5 Steps to be a good
Listener
1 Stay
focus, keep eye contact and don’t judge
2: really
listen don’t think about your similar experiences and what you want to tell
them next.
3 Allow for
periods of silence Wait till the other person speaks again
4 Read the
person’s words and paraphrase them to back to them.
5.
Understand the emotions behind the words.
Rule 5: Talk
in terms of the other man’s interest.
“The royal road to a man’s heart is to
talk to him about the things he treasures the most.”
This is extremely important to know because your allowing the person to
speak and it’s amazing thing because the person will know you care for them and
