The 7 Habits of highly effective People

Habit 1: Be Proactive

“Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that’s why it comes first. It says,” I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I’m responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver’s seat of my destiny, not just a passenger.”

  Being proactive means to take action of something or being dynamic. This quote shows the person who says this quote is being proactive he’s taking action for his goals. Frist of ask yourself some questions on what you can succeed on for your own benefit. Plan out, set out a plan for yourself gather information, set up some goals for yourself and be proactive. Try to prevent problems what I mean about this is to not socialize too much to make yourself stay out of trouble and not to get into any one business. Develop a mind set for yourself to solve your problems, and think about things that can help you overcome that problem. Get ahead of your day, by planning out things that will help your day become easier and faster. Set your priorities straight make sure that you can leave the stuff that don’t matter away and do the stuff the you need get them started.

 

The Fundamental Techniques in handling People

Technique: Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want the honey, don’t kick over the beehive.”

  I feel like this one is very important because many people complain because they want life to be when it isn’t at all. Criticizing is very bad because you may begin to judge them before you know them and it may also happen when someone did something bad to do but I think we should just all learn how to forgive it is just for the better. It’s also bad to blame a person unless you know the person did it but for the best it’s just better to look and not say anything. I have a connection towards this, one time I went to forever 21 and there was this lady complaining to a worker and I felt so bad for the worker, it’s even worse when they can’t refuse customer service to anyone and just stay quiet. “If you want the honey, don’t kick the beehive.” How are you going to get the honey in the first place when you are going to kick we have to suffer a little to get the thigs we want. 

Christmas Break

    I went to Hesperia over the Christmas break it is kind of far and it rained a lot over there. I met my family who I haven’t seen for about 5 Years, they were pretty interesting to meet. I would say my Christmas was really crowded but I don’t know this year I didn’t really feel the Christmas it was kind of sad. I think it because as you get older you begin to realize how hard life is hitting you what I mean by this is when you begin to get older things suddenly begin to fade away you are not excited for the up holidays and I think it’s just part of growing up. In general with the family it was great we bonded and ate. All the kids ended up getting what they wanted for Christmas as the usual, and so did everyone else. Christmas Eve didn’t really go so good for me but Christmas day did. On Christmas day my dad and I bounded a lot we played baseball and a little bit of hockey, liked we did when I was little. I really liked the weather this year because I love to play baseball in the rain especially when there is a storm and it begins to pour with rain, it just reminds me of the things that I like. For this Christmas I got the recorder that plays records and it was probably the best gift that I got it’s because I really like music and it allowed me to get my mind off of these things , by looking at records that I really like. When you are in the break your teacher gives you homework well I had homework and it was to do my project of Acids and it was kind of hard but I got it done and that’s important. I have been reading a lot of books lately one that I really liked was “Life gets Better” and it talks about how a lot of peoples’ lives combined telling you there experiences and how their life gets better.