The 7 Habits of highly effective People

Habit 1: Be Proactive

“Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that’s why it comes first. It says,” I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I’m responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver’s seat of my destiny, not just a passenger.”

  Being proactive means to take action of something or being dynamic. This quote shows the person who says this quote is being proactive he’s taking action for his goals. Frist of ask yourself some questions on what you can succeed on for your own benefit. Plan out, set out a plan for yourself gather information, set up some goals for yourself and be proactive. Try to prevent problems what I mean about this is to not socialize too much to make yourself stay out of trouble and not to get into any one business. Develop a mind set for yourself to solve your problems, and think about things that can help you overcome that problem. Get ahead of your day, by planning out things that will help your day become easier and faster. Set your priorities straight make sure that you can leave the stuff that don’t matter away and do the stuff the you need get them started.

 

The Fundamental Techniques in handling People

Technique: Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want the honey, don’t kick over the beehive.”

  I feel like this one is very important because many people complain because they want life to be when it isn’t at all. Criticizing is very bad because you may begin to judge them before you know them and it may also happen when someone did something bad to do but I think we should just all learn how to forgive it is just for the better. It’s also bad to blame a person unless you know the person did it but for the best it’s just better to look and not say anything. I have a connection towards this, one time I went to forever 21 and there was this lady complaining to a worker and I felt so bad for the worker, it’s even worse when they can’t refuse customer service to anyone and just stay quiet. “If you want the honey, don’t kick the beehive.” How are you going to get the honey in the first place when you are going to kick we have to suffer a little to get the thigs we want. 

Christmas Break

    I went to Hesperia over the Christmas break it is kind of far and it rained a lot over there. I met my family who I haven’t seen for about 5 Years, they were pretty interesting to meet. I would say my Christmas was really crowded but I don’t know this year I didn’t really feel the Christmas it was kind of sad. I think it because as you get older you begin to realize how hard life is hitting you what I mean by this is when you begin to get older things suddenly begin to fade away you are not excited for the up holidays and I think it’s just part of growing up. In general with the family it was great we bonded and ate. All the kids ended up getting what they wanted for Christmas as the usual, and so did everyone else. Christmas Eve didn’t really go so good for me but Christmas day did. On Christmas day my dad and I bounded a lot we played baseball and a little bit of hockey, liked we did when I was little. I really liked the weather this year because I love to play baseball in the rain especially when there is a storm and it begins to pour with rain, it just reminds me of the things that I like. For this Christmas I got the recorder that plays records and it was probably the best gift that I got it’s because I really like music and it allowed me to get my mind off of these things , by looking at records that I really like. When you are in the break your teacher gives you homework well I had homework and it was to do my project of Acids and it was kind of hard but I got it done and that’s important. I have been reading a lot of books lately one that I really liked was “Life gets Better” and it talks about how a lot of peoples’ lives combined telling you there experiences and how their life gets better. 

Final Part 1

  One of the things that I liked about this class I learned many ways on how I can become successful in life and how I can maintain good emotions in being happy by learning way on how to choose the right.

Some things that I improved in class is by learning how to you Microsoft word and power-point I really improved in this and made progress, in these past several days I also in improved on my behavior .

  I honestly believe that I did really good this year

I am 100% committed into becoming a CTR person because who wouldn’t want to do good in their life and I believe choosing the right is the way to go good with this and I believe everyone should be committed into becoming a CTR person because this world is falling apart and having a teacher like Mr. Haymore may help this world become a better place.

Life Planning 100+ Goals

5 minute Daily Reading

November

Yes=No

18) Yes

19) Yes

20) Yes 
21) Yes
22) Yes
23) Yes 
24) Yes
25) Yes 
26) Yes
27) Yes
28) Yes
29) Yes
30) Yes 

December 

1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Yes
4) Yes
5) Yes
6) Yes
7) Yes

Six Ways to Make People like you. If you want people to like you…..

       Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

This is rule may get the person to like you but not mostly because when you are interested in a person who show interest, showing that you care and your there to listen. Also when you show interest the person may think that you’re being open-minded and they feel sure you won’t judge them. When you show interest in a person the person sees how great you are and what you’re sharing with them can also grab interest in one another. As your showing interest to a person you develop a foundation of communication allowing one or the to become great friends. Personally, I like it when someone shows interest because we get to know one another and see how people think and how they react to certain things. Showing interest in a person can also open up many opportunities in the future as well as you build up the foundation of communication. It’s also well to develop interest in your community to make it better and I believe many people will get to like you, because you care for you home.  It is also important to have interest in your education because that shows you care and many people will look up to you. You shall also show interest in your parents because that shows that you care and love them.

 Rule 2: Smile

Smiling is one of the most important thing it should be number 1 as the part of your day because smiling helps you get through the day in a more positive and delightful way. Whenever I’m having a bad day I always intend to smile because I know the day will go faster and better if I keep having a positive attitude throughout the day. Also when you smile you show interest, it just may be that you like the person or you be getting the person to like you. If you smile and you’re in a bad mood it will easily improve your mood. “Let your smile change the world, don’t let the world change your smile.” This is an outstanding quote because it shows that you shouldn’t let the people in this world make you feel bad feel great and confident about yourself, for the person you are today because there is no one else like you. “Don’t smile because it’s over, Smile because it happened.” This quote is very important because it shows thing =s that happen in life and we should get over them, because life isn’t just a pretty picture on the wall so smile so you can get through these obstacles. 

Rule4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

  This is extremely important because it allows anyone to gain confidence with one or another and having confidence is probably one of the best to get a person to like you that way they know you care about them. When you’re being a good listener it allows them to open up to. On way of being a good listener is being looking at them in the eyes because that is one of the way they’ll know you listening to the person you’re speaking to. Many people don’t think it’s important to be a good listener because they’re selfish and don’t care about others, so be the other person and care for the things they tell you. “If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.” “Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interesting in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems.”

5 Steps to be a good Listener

1 Stay focus, keep eye contact and don’t judge

2: really listen don’t think about your similar experiences and what you want to tell them next.

3 Allow for periods of silence Wait till the other person speaks again

4 Read the person’s words and paraphrase them to back to them.

5. Understand the emotions behind the words.

 

 Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man’s interest.

“The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures the most.”

  This is extremely important to know because your allowing the person to speak and it’s amazing thing because the person will know you care for them and 

Glenn Cunningham

       Glenn Cunningham, a man who went through a lot in a young age, nearly almost dying in explosion. Glenn got his legs burned at the age of 7, doctors at the hospital said that he will never make it, but he did he didn’t want to become a failure so what he did is that he never lost faith for himself he would always say to himself that he will walk because staying positive is the way to lead you onto things, being able to overcome these obstacles. I believe a lot of people go through a lot because life puts all these obstacles in our path so we can be strongly mentally or physically and that’s why I believe Glenn Cunningham has a big heart because he thought also about making his parents happy, being a good model for himself and his family. One of the things I really admire about this man is that he is positive, having a perspective on seeing life in a positive way is challenge, and Glenn overcame his challenge.